White Elephant Gift Exchange Themes
A White Elephant theme gives everyone a shared idea for their gift, which makes shopping easier and the pile more fun. The most popular themes are re-gift, cozy, 'something you'd want yourself', ornaments, books, desk upgrades and local treats. Pick one that fits your group and your budget.
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Re-gift
Bring something you own but never use, still in good condition. Free, sustainable and usually hilarious. Set one rule: it has to be something someone could actually want.
Cozy
Blankets, fuzzy socks, candles, mugs, hot cocoa kits, slippers. The most-stolen category at almost every party.
Something you’d want yourself
The simplest theme of all, and it stops the pile of junk. If you wouldn’t be happy taking it home, don’t bring it.
Ornaments
Every gift is a tree ornament: funny, handmade, or a nice one. Easy on budgets and great for families.
Books
A favorite novel, a coffee-table book, a cookbook. Add a note on why you picked it.
Desk upgrades
For offices: desk plants, cable organizers, a good pen, a mug warmer, a mini whiteboard. See coworker gift ideas.
Local treats
Something from your town or region: local coffee, hot sauce, chocolate, honey or a gift card to a favorite café. Great for remote teams in different cities.
Self-care
Bath bombs, face masks, a nice hand cream, a sleep mask.
Kitchen gadgets
The weird and the useful: herb scissors, a garlic press, a fancy salt, a mini waffle maker.
Coffee and tea
Beans from a good roaster, a pour-over set, loose-leaf tea, a fancy mug.
Game night
Card games, small board games, puzzles, a deck of conversation cards.
As seen on TV
Gadgets you’d only ever buy as a joke, and end up using.
Under $10
A low budget forces creativity. See ideas under $10.
Outdoors
Hand warmers, a headlamp, a water bottle, a camping mug.
Ugly sweater
Every gift comes wrapped inside an ugly sweater, or is one.
Made by hand
Baked goods, knitted things, art, homemade jam.
Puns
The gift has to be a pun: a bag of chips labeled “You’re a real chip off the old block”, pears (“we make a great pair”).
Experiences
A movie ticket, a class voucher, a coffee date coupon.
Childhood favorites
Nostalgic snacks, toys or games from when you were a kid.
Mystery box
Wrap several small items in one box. Quantity over quality.
Picking a theme
- Offices: desk upgrades, coffee and tea, cozy.
- Families with kids: ornaments, game night, under $10.
- Friends: re-gift, as seen on TV, puns.
- Remote teams: local treats or experiences, since they ship well or are digital.
Add your theme to the invitation maker and your house rules. Browse more by budget in the gift ideas section or start with ideas for adults. Hosting remotely? The virtual game lets each person attach a link and a hint to their gift.
Frequently asked questions
Do you need a theme for White Elephant?
No. Most games don't use one. A theme helps when guests struggle to choose gifts or when you want a more consistent pile.
What is the most popular White Elephant theme?
Re-gifting (bring something you own but don't use) and 'cozy' are the two most common, followed by 'something you'd want yourself'.
Can you combine themes?
Yes, but keep it simple. 'Cozy under $25' works. Three combined themes usually confuse people.